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I'm Erin Jo. I'm thinking, writing, dreaming, mothering, loving, living, praising, BLESSED to be Fiona to my Shrek and Mommy to my four amazing kiddos.

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Shrek is "like an onion with many layers" but has a heart of gold. He's my husband and my friend, and we just get better all the time.

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Lily is my first baby and only girl. She's smart, funny, tall and kind. Keeping up with this girl is a challenge and a joy. She's terrific!

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Max is one part ogre, two parts lover and all boy! Our little man has a temper but gives the best hugs of anyone I know!

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Colby is as ornery as he looks. He flirts shamelessly, even with strangers. He's all mouth and curls and the loudest by far.

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Luke is the baby of the family, but holds his own. He's happy and adorable. And he's a terrible sleeper. =)

Keep Calm and Carry On

So I mentioned I’d had a rough month in May. I can’t really tell you why; it was just one of those times in my life where there was a lot going on, the blues kept sucking me down, and I couldn’t find the time to take care of myself, to be gentle with myself … to even be by myself very much at all.

One day, as I was walking down Court Street in Athens on my lunch break, I saw this poster hanging in a store window. I’d seen this poster in a picture on one of my favorite blogs, www.nieniedialogues.com. With funds low but my interest piqued, I marched into the place and bought one of these beauties. It now dances around the various walls of my office. I can’t seem to figure out where it belongs, but it does belong.
(The history of this poster is as striking as its simple design. It was produced, but never used, in 1939 by the British government at the start of World War II as a “last resort” in the event of a Nazi invasion.)
My wise junior high English teacher, Mrs. Gretchen Montgomery, once told my parents in a parent-teacher conference, “Erin sometimes gets a black cloud over her head, but we know if we leave her alone, she pulls out of it.”
It’s true. I’ve always been a bit arrogant in the way I believe that no one can help me but myself. I’m independent and headstrong to a fault. I take care of people, and I don’t let them take care of me–even when I am in need of care. One of the many drawbacks of this is that people around me get used to this and quit trying.
But what I’m getting at is this: I was in more than a bit of a funk. And now, I’m out. The poster helped me, I helped myself, and, this time, I let some of you help me too.
Thank you.

2 Responses

  1. open book says:

    Erin, I love this…. Do you know it actually came from London? It was popiular during the war years….and sooooo British an attitude. While we were there, I walked past a gift shop with coffee mugs with this logo in the window…passed them by…and have regretted it ever since. I just may have to order them online. It's my mantra!!!!

  2. open book says:

    Erin, I love this…. Do you know it actually came from London? It was popiular during the war years….and sooooo British an attitude. While we were there, I walked past a gift shop with coffee mugs with this logo in the window…passed them by…and have regretted it ever since. I just may have to order them online. It's my mantra!!!!

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